A Good Bio Will Get You More Matches
Dating apps can be brutal, especially for men. There are some guys who get hundreds of matches, while most don’t ever get a single one, let alone a date. In fact, according to a Newsweek article, 90% of men get no matches on Bumble and end up deleting the app within a week. Most of them don’t know why. You might be only a few steps away from getting a match, a date, and maybe even your girlfriend. All you have to do is get your bio right.
"Actually having a great bio sets them apart. So many dudes don’t bother with that stuff and just put a bunch of photos on their profile." – a Redditor
People get swiped right based on the information shown in the app: their bio and photos. The recipe for getting more matches lies in one of these two sections. Every guy who gets a lot of matches gets both of these ingredients right. Today, you will find out the secret to getting you matches. Let’s jump in.
Let’s first understand why the bio matters. Your Bumble bio is a way for the other person to know more about you than what they can see in your images. A well-written bio should give them an idea of how fun you are, where your interests lie, and whether you are looking for a long-term relationship, a casual one, or something in between. To understand how to get a bio right, let’s first understand how Bumble is different from other dating platforms.
"I read bios before I check out pics. So I want a good bio. Someone who seems like he has a good sense of humor, doesn't take himself too seriously, seems like a nice person, and has similar interests." (girls love bios)
Bumble is designed to give women control. Its most unique feature is that women start the conversation. Another feature that makes Bumble stand out is its design, which uses interesting prompts and bio lines to make profiles engaging. For a woman to see your profile, swipe right, and start a conversation, she has to be genuinely intrigued. So, how do you make your profile compelling enough for her to take those steps and reach out?
Let’s break it down.
1. Show Your Real Passions
There are people out there looking for someone exactly like you. The problem is, most men either hide their true interests or list fake ones they think sound cool. This never works. Your lack of real enthusiasm shows, and it makes for a boring profile.
The right strategy is simple: be authentic. Take a moment and write down what you are genuinely passionate about. It doesn’t matter if it’s cricket, anime, or a niche film club. Passion is attractive. It shows you have stories to tell and a unique perspective.
Here’s how to do it right:
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Stand Out: Don't just list your hobbies; show them. Instead of saying, "I like to travel," write something specific that tells a story.
For example: "Currently on a mission to find the best biryani in Bengaluru. Send me your recommendations."
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Use Your Photos: Your pictures should support what your bio says. If you love hiking, include a great, candid photo of you on a trail. The best-performing photos are often the ones where you're seen in action, doing what you love.
2. Create a Little Mystery
A hint of mystery makes a profile incredibly compelling. Don't give away all your best stories in your bio. Instead, leave a hook that makes someone want to match with you just to get the answer. This gives her an easy way to start the conversation.
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Leave Open-Ended Prompts: Write prompts that invite questions.
- Example 1: "Ask me about the time I accidentally ended up on stage with a rock band."
- Example 2: "My most controversial opinion is about how pineapple belongs on..."
- Example 3: "Two truths and a lie: I've met Shah Rukh Khan, I can bake a perfect sourdough, I once won a golgappa eating contest."
- Example 4: "I have a very particular set of skills. They include making instant noodles at 2 AM and..."
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Keep It Short: A woman often decides whether to swipe in just a few seconds. She won’t read a novel. Work on making your bio short, unique, and mysterious. Every word should count.
3. Best bios have Positivity and Good Humor
For centuries, women have been attracted to gentlemen. That hasn't changed. Two key traits of a gentleman are a good sense of humor and a positive outlook. Your bio is the perfect place to show both.
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Humor Gets Attention: With so many guys competing for her attention, humor makes you stand out. It shows that a date with you will be fun.
- Example 1: "Pros: can reach things on the top shelf. Cons: will use that power to hide the good snacks."
- Example 2: "Just a guy, standing in front of an app, asking it to find him someone to send memes to."
- Example 3: "My best quality? I have excellent taste in music, according to my Spotify Wrapped."
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Positivity is Attractive: A positive personality makes people feel comfortable and safe. Focus on what you do want, not what you don't.
Avoid this: "No drama. Not looking for hookups. If you're boring, swipe left."
This kind of bio is negative and immediately off-putting.
Instead, try this: "Looking for a fun, easy-going partner for spontaneous adventures and great conversation."
Focus on what you like, not what you're against. Based on a study, it is advised to use about 70% of your bio to talk about yourself and 30% to describe the kind of person you’d like to meet.
Most people spend a week crafting their resume for a job but only a few minutes writing their bio, probably because they are excited to start swiping. It's important to realize that your bio is like your resume for dating. Don’t be like most men who get ignored because they put very little effort into their bio. Instead, put great effort into your bio, and you will be surprised by the results.
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